Do any members of BTS have significant others in real life? If so, why do they choose not to discuss it publicly?
Last Updated: 19.06.2025 08:45
The question was quite similar to this one and she basically said that if they don't talk about their romantic relationships or their intimate lives, there is no way to know if they are in a romantic relationship or not. This answer is totally wise.
I understand that some people develop feelings of affection for them. I even understand platonic crushes. What is difficult to accept is that some fans believe that they can invade the privacy of their lives with the excuse "that they love them." Please, if harassing someone is your concept of love, don't love them. Go to therapy.
Have you seen how many delusional crazy women there are in the fandom? Worse yet, every day, the fandom grows bigger and bigger. In the same way that many fans arrive with their heads firmly in place, eager to enjoy their music and support them, people also arrive who rave a lot.
If that happens to them when they are alone or with friends, can you imagine what would happen the day one of them's love relationship comes to light? You don't have to be a genius in space engineering to know that the chaos that would form would be monumental.
*"For the members of BTS, ARMY will always come before their families or spouses" (sadly sometimes I feel that they themselves motivate that fantasy)
The members of BTS know that a large part of the fandom is unconditional and very respectful, but they know that there are also people who sadly are very sick in the head. That is the main reason why they jealously guard the privacy of their intimate life.
If there are people in the world who have the possibility of having a wide and diverse social life, they are the idols.
We all have the right to admire the artists we like in different ways, but it is not a good idea to pay someone to give you private information about an artist. It's not nice to camp outside the condominium where your bias lives. It's not nice to follow your bias to his apartment or gym.
It's not nice to approach your bias and harass him for photos while he's trying to hang out with his friends.
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Mmmmm. A few days ago I read an answer that was so accurate that I really liked it, but I honestly can't remember who answered it.
On both Instagram and Twitter I have read things like:
So I am 100% sure that all of them have had loving, romantic and/or sexual partners in the past. What's more, perhaps some of them currently have a girlfriend (or boyfriend, so no one is offended) and they are waiting for them until they leave military service. We don't know that.
*Surely they will marry women to hide their obvious homosexuality.
Besides that, we are supposed to follow and admire them for their music and what they give us is that.
Now, to answer the second question, the reason why they don't talk about their romantic relationships publicly is quite simple to answer as well.
*We will make her life impossible.
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And this would not be limited to the maknae line. I am very sure that today, not even the Hyung line would be safe from the thousand unbridled crazy people who would complain to them on RRSS about the fact that they have a romantic relationship with someone. This with the excuse that by being in a romantic relationship they have neglected the fandom.
I have read all kinds of stupid things coming from both men and women, and the truth is that every day the obsession with them becomes more and more horrifying.
* "If the woman who marries so-and-so (here the name of any of the BTS members) makes him unhappy, it will be better for her to put an end to his life herself."
Despite that, if I get a little daring and stick my nose where I don't care, it is easy for me to conclude that since they are adult men over 25 years old, it would be impossible for them not to have dated someone in all the time they have been working in the industry.